With @djsule99. We work hard to make sure we have a happy loving marriage. Is everyday sweet and kind and beautiful? No. We are humans and we are just going to have crappy days, it’s natural. It’s so important to build that awareness about yourself and be conscious of when you are the one having a sour experience and it has nothing to do with your spouse. My modus operandi in life is to own full responsibility of my actions and outcomes. I personally feel that’s the best way to live because it puts you a place where you can think of how to make it better next time. After being married some years, there’s a realization that people may change, their hobbies and interest may change, their careers may change, and their lifestyle may change. You might be tempted to fight it, because you don’t recognize it. Change is frightening. After we’ve been through many changes in our lives (I think we’ve been through everything I listed above together), the one thing I’ll assure you is that the person’s love does not change for you. It’s your fear and non-acceptance that might push them away. Provided the change is not in a negative direction, why worry? If you don’t get it, keep asking questions until you do. And if you never get it, oh well, just keep riding along and do it for them. So my message is marriage is sacrifice, it’s less about you and more about your union. Work on your goals together, work on your finances together, support each other, and your lives together will be fine.
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